I often receive calls from total beginners who have taken some time to work up the courage to call Me, let alone organising their first ever session with a Pro-Domme.
The most common fear for a beginner is the thought of being subjected to pain.
In an initial session, I need to point out that pain is only inflicted on those subs and slaves who are masochists and enjoy the pain or those who do not have a masochistic tendency but find that a degree of sufferance enhances their state of ecstasy.
If you do not know if pain is something which will positively affect your head space, then this will NOT be a part of your session, especially not a first session! A gradual introduction can always be explored further down the track when you have gained more experience.
Many novices often come to Me initially with a specific fetish e.g. foot and/or stocking or pantyhose fetish. After overcoming their nerves during their first session, they tend to gravitate to further exploration which again, may or may not involve any form of pain! This is a personal choice.
For the first time sub, slave or fetishist, I do not simply wield a whip or flogger and beat the crap out of you as many of you may erroneously assume. That is reserved for your second session… I am joking!
Seriously, administering pain is only one of a multitude of skills within My extensive repertoire and it is not something I impose on a novice.
I fully understand your apprehension and I endeavour to create a rewarding and profound experience in realising your submissive potential within My realm.
Fear no more, breath a sigh of relief and give Me a call… I promise I don’t bite!