It is the dream of many slaves and submissives to devote themselves to one special Mistress and this is truly admirable.
Unfortunately where this often fails is when a slave or sub cannot step out of their fantasy world and live the reality of true devotion.
It takes courage and strength of character to live a life of devotion to a Mistress. your desire should not feel like a chore or a burden and it is not something you do only when you feel like it. you cannot be half hearted – you either want to devote yourself entirely or you don’t!
Devotion means making sacrifices on your part in order make your Mistress’ life easier – it should not make Her life harder or more complicated.
your Mistress becomes your priority WITHOUT any expectations in return. It is NOT about ‘if i do this for Mistress i will get that reward’. That mindset has nothing to do with devotion and is a selfish aspect which comes entirely from your self-centered ego. There is no room for ego in devotion.
It is so easy to make promises. A Mistress is not interested in what you say you can or will do, She is far more impressed by your actions.
If you are not prepared to follow through on what you say, it is best to keep quiet than risk offending a Mistress with your shallow, meaningless words. It will not take a Mistress very long to see right through your insincerity!
In My realm, profound, unselfish devotion through repeated, unprompted action will reap certain privileges at My discretion and invitation but not as a reward. It should never become your expectation to be granted a privilege for the sacrifices you make for Me and devotion is not about owing anyone anything.
My advice to you is: watch what you say and concentrate more on what you do.
your life as a devoted slave or submissive will become a happier, more fulfilling and profound experience for you and your Mistress, if you allow your actions to speak louder than your words.