“Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude.”
As an active participant of many BDSM websites which require a profile, Mine clearly points out that I am NOT after a 24/7 slave or any form of intimate relationship with a slave or submissive. I am simply astounded by the number of requests I persistently receive along those lines despite what My profile and website says. Why do slaves continue to selectively ignore certain aspects of My profile and website?
First of all, what is the purpose of having a profile? Most would agree that it is there to serve as an accurate indication and description of Oneself so others can make an informed choice as to whether contact with that person is appropriate for them. No point wasting time writing to someone if each has a different goal.
So what incites a slave or submissive to make contact and asking for precisely that which has been made very clear is not available or an option? Is it wishful thinking and an arrogant belief in hoping against all hope that the person will change their mind because the ‘requestee’ is so irresistible? Is it selfishness? Why would a slave waste My precious time (and theirs for that matter) by writing Me a long-winded, descriptive email about how wonderful they are and what they can do for Me on a 24/7 basis when I am not even looking for a 24/7 slave or submissive? Surely you would take the hint and move on to other profiles where the Mistress is genuinely searching for 24/7 slave!
How could I even take such a slave seriously when they so blatantly have not done so with My profile? Decent, unselfish slaves and submissives would respect what is outlined in My profile, and the fact they have not respected My wishes says a lot about them. Quite frankly, just from that point of view, I am not surprised they are still out there searching for that elusive ’24/7 slave position’ which will continue to remain elusive to them. If that approach of desperation is how they contact a Mistress, they will be searching for a very long time!
Desperation is a huge turn off and it is made even worse when I am approached with a request I have clearly pointed out in My profile that I am NOT interested in to begin with. How much clearer do I have to be?
Failure to do so and ignoring important aspects of My profile, will only result in rejection and unhappiness which a slave brings upon himself for being so arrogant, selfish and disrespectful in not doing the right thing by Me in the first place! Such a thoughtless approach will not ingratiate you any way in My eyes.
slaves and submissives must learn to properly read and fully absorb every piece of information not only in My profile, but ALL profiles, or they just end up wasting everybody’s time!